A Jungian-Astrological Approach to Relationship, Projection and Conscious Love





DICTIONARY
of TERMS
DICTIONARY OF TERMS
Excerpt from WHEN the OTHER is YOU,
Love Beyond Projection is the Alchemy or Relationships in the Age of Aquarius
Active Imagination
A method developed by Jung for engaging the unconscious in dialogue with consciousness. In active imagination, images, figures, or scenes from dreams and fantasies are allowed to unfold while the conscious ego observes and interacts with them. This process bridges the gap between conscious and unconscious, giving symbolic form to hidden material and fostering integration.
Alchemy
An ancient symbolic system of transformation, originally practiced as a proto-chemistry, later understood by Jung as a metaphor for psychological growth. Alchemy describes the process of turning base matter (shadow) into Gold (consciousness) as an image of the psyche’s movement toward wholeness. Its stages — such as nigredo (shadow work also called the
dark night of the soul). This stage begins the alchemical process of
transformation.
Anima
The inner feminine archetype within a man’s psyche. The Anima appears in dreams, fantasies, and projections, often personified as a woman who carries the qualities of feeling, relatedness, imagination, and connection to the unconscious. In shadow form, she is projected onto women, creating romantic illusion, emotional dependency, and cycles of idealization and devaluation. Jung sometimes referred to the Anima as “life itself,” for she is the principle through which feeling and meaning enter consciousness. When integrated, she brings emotional depth, creativity, soulful connection, and the capacity for genuine intimacy.
Animus
The inner masculine archetype within a woman’s psyche. The Animus appears as a collective inner voice of thought, opinion, will, and authority, and may be personified in dreams as various male figures. In shadow form, he can manifest as rigid judgments, dogmatic certainty, or an internal critic that undermines feeling and relationship. When integrated, the Animus brings clarity of thought, inner authority, intellectual strength, discernment, and the capacity to act with conscious conviction. In this form, he protects a woman psychologically by giving her the ability to think clearly, set boundaries, and stand in her truth.
Archetype
Universal patterns and images that arise from the collective unconscious. Archetypes are not personal but collective, shaping human experience
across cultures and time. They appear in myths, dreams, and symbols, taking forms such as the Hero, Mother, Shadow, Trickster, or Wise Old Man. Archetypes structure the psyche and provide the symbolic language through which unconscious material emerges. In astrological language
the planets are described as archetypes — Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, etc.
Cathexis
When we “fall in love,” our energy — attention, desire, imagination — becomes cathected onto the beloved. M. Scott Peck describes falling in love as a form of temporary cathexis: the psyche floods the beloved with energy, making them appear larger than life. But he emphasizes that cathexis is not the same as love. It is an initial surge of attraction and attachment. Real love begins later, when that energy must be transformed into commitment, discipline, and care after
the cathexis fades.
Chakra
A Sanskrit word meaning “wheel” or “disk,” referring to the subtle energy centers in the body described in yogic and tantric traditions. Chakras are believed to regulate the flow of life-force energy (prana) and correspond to specific physical, emotional, and spiritual functions. Traditionally, seven major chakras are recognized, running from the base of the spine to the crown of the head. Each is associated with particular qualities of consciousness and development.
Collective Unconscious
The transpersonal layer of the psyche shared by all humans. It contains archetypes — universal patterns that come to the surface in myths, dreams, fantasies, and synchronicities. It provides the symbolic matrix from which individual experience draws meaning. It is not personal,
but collective.
Complex
A cluster of charged feelings, images, and memories organized around a theme, often rooted in early experiences. Complexes have their own emotional energy and can take over the ego, leading to exaggerated reactions or projections. They are not “bad” in themselves; when made conscious, they point to unresolved wounds and offer a pathway toward healing —
a charge of energy is experienced when constellated.
Composite State
A psychological condition in which body, instincts, emotions, and mind are fused together in an undifferentiated way. In this state, the ego becomes tangled up with bodily appetites and compulsions, unable to distinguish its own standpoint, reacting automatically and remaining entangled rather than seeing clearly or responding with awareness.
Compensation
The psyche’s natural balancing principle. When the conscious attitude
becomes too one-sided, the unconscious compensates — often through dreams, symptoms, or projections — to restore equilibrium. For example, excessive rationality may be balanced by unconscious eruptions of feeling or affect, or excessive emotion may be balanced by overthinking/logic.
Consciousness
The part of the psyche that is aware, reflective, and intentional. In Jungian psychology, consciousness is the ego’s field of awareness — the place where
we “know that we know.” Relationships expand consciousness by making us face what we previously avoided — the dark as well as the light.
Coniunctio
A Latin term meaning “sacred union,” drawn from alchemy. Jung us
conscious and unconscious, masculine and feminine, spirit and matter. The coniunctio is a central image of individuation, pointing to wholeness born out of tension, conflict, and reconciliation. Also known as the union of opposites, the sacred or mystical marriage within the psyche. Other symbolic representations are King/Queen, Sol/Luna, Sun/Moon and in astrology, Aries/Libra ruled by Mars/Venus.
Ego
The center of the conscious personality, responsible for identity, decision-making, and adaptation to external reality. While necessary for navigating life, the ego is the subjective part of the total psyche. Over-identification with the ego creates imbalance, while individuation requires the ego to enter into dialogue with the unconscious, the objective psyche, what Jung called the Self.
Ego-Self Axis
The dynamic relationship between the conscious ego and the archetypal Self (wholeness). A healthy axis means dialogue and guidance: the ego
remains responsible and grounded while orienting to the Self’s meaning and direction. When disrupted, it shows up as alienation (ego cut off from depth) or inflation (ego identified with transpersonal power). Strengthened through dreams, active imagination, symbol, and ritual. (Ego-Self axis is
a term attributed to Edward F. Edinger, author of Ego and Archetype)
Enantiodromia
A Jungian term (from Heraclitus) describing the tendency of things to turn into their opposite when carried to extremes. Psychologically, it’s the swing from one-sidedness into its contrary — for example, excessive control flipping into chaos, or inflated optimism collapsing into despair. Jung saw enantiodromia as the psyche’s way of restoring balance.
Eros
In Jungian psychology, Eros refers to the principle of relatedness, connection, and feeling. Rooted in the Greek god of love, it emphasizes bonds
of affection, intimacy, and the weaving together of opposites. Eros shows up as empathy, care, and emotional resonance, but in shadow may cling, merge, or manipulate for closeness. Integrated, Eros brings warmth, compassion, and a deep capacity to love in ways that nourish the soul.
God Image
Jung’s term for the innate human experience of the divine, carried within the psyche. The God image is not the same as theological concepts of God, but archetypal imprint that shapes our sense of meaning, awe, and purpose. It often surfaces in dreams, visions, and projections, and in relationships may be unconsciously placed on the partner, who then bears the weight of the sacred.
Gold (as alchemical term)
Symbolic of an open heart and the fullness of the Self. In alchemy, gold represents the incorruptible, perfected substance — the culmination of transformation. Psychologically, it points to the radiance of consciousness integrated with the unconscious, a heart opened by wholeness. True gold
is not material wealth but the inner treasure of love and wisdom, in astrology it is a symbol of the radiant Sun, the center of consciousness.
Hermes (Mercurius)
The Greek messenger god, associated with communication, trickery, liminality, and crossing thresholds. Archetypally, Hermes represents quickness of thought, wit, and the ability to move between worlds — conscious and unconscious, mortal and divine. He is a guide of souls (psychopomp) and
a symbol of Mercury in astrology. In shadow, Hermes can deceive or confuse; integrated, he connects, translates, and brings insight from one realm into another.
Hieros Gamos
Greek: “sacred marriage,” a symbolic union of divine counterparts, often used by Jung to describe the coniunctio or integration of opposites in the individuation process.
Individuation
A central concept in Jungian psychology, describing the lifelong process of becoming one’s true, whole self. Individuation involves integrating the unconscious with the conscious, reconciling opposites, and realizing one’s unique potential. It is not about perfection but about becoming more fully who we are.
Inferior Function
In Jung’s typology, the inferior function is the least developed psychological function — the one most neglected or repressed. It often shows up
in distorted or unconscious ways, projected onto others or appearing in dreams as awkward, childish, or disruptive figures. The inferior function holds great transformative potential, since integrating it balances the dominant attitude and deepens wholeness. In our birth chart shows
up as a lack of elements (see typology or elements).
Libido
In Jungian psychology, libido refers not only to sexual drive (as used by Freud) but more broadly as psychic energy — the life force that fuels all psychological activity. This energy flows into desires, creativity, relationships, and spiritual pursuits. For Jung, libido is the dynamic current of the psyche itself, capable of shifting from instinctual expression to symbolic and spiritual transformation.
Logos
The principle of reason, structure, and clarity. Logos emphasizes diffentiation, analysis, and the capacity to see objectively. It is often contrasted with Eros, yet the two are complementary. In shadow, Logos can become cold, rigid, or overly rational; integrated, it offers discernment, order, and the ability to see truth clearly. When Eros and Logos work together, feeling and reason balance each other to create wisdom.
Metanoia
From the Greek meta (beyond, change) and noia (mind), metanoia means a radical shift of consciousness or inner conversion. In Jungian terms, it
describes the psyche’s capacity to reorganize itself during breakdowns or crises — when the old order collapses and a new orientation emerges.
Metanoia is not just repentance, but the turning toward deeper meaning — changing our mind.
Monomyth
A term popularized by Joseph Campbell in The Hero with a Thousand Faces to describe the universal narrative pattern of the hero’s journey. In the monomyth, the hero leaves the ordinary world, undergoes trials and initiation, confronts a central ordeal, and returns transformed, bearing new gifts for the community. Campbell showed that this structure underlies myths across cultures, expressing an archetypal pattern of transformation.
Nigredo (alchemical term)
Latin for “blackening,” the first major alchemical stage. Psychologically, it signifies dissolution and disorientation — the dark night of the soul when old attitudes break down and shadow material surfaces. This descent provides the prima materia for transformation — the first stage of individuation and the gateway to the unconscious/Self.
Numinous
A term for experiences that feel sacred, awe-inspiring, or charged with a sense of the divine. Jung used “numinous” to describe encounters with the unconscious or archetypal realities that evoke reverence, wonder, or even terror. The numinous is not created by the ego but breaks in upon it, signaling a direct contact with the larger Self. Feelings like synchronicity evoke the numinous experience.
Opus
A Latin word meaning “work,” used by alchemists to describe the Magnum Opus, the “Great Work” of transformation. In Alchemy, the Opus refers to the sequential process of turning base matter into Gold, a symbolic image of psychic transformation. For Jung, the Opus became a metaphor for individuation: the lifelong work of integrating unconscious contents into consciousness.
Persona
The “mask” or social face we present to the world. It represents adaptation to collective norms and roles — how we wish to be seen by others. While necessary for functioning in society, over-identification with the persona can cut us off from deeper aspects of the self. Individuation involves dis-
tinguishing the persona from the authentic personality beneath it.
Philosopher’s Stone
In Alchemy, the Philosopher’s Stone was the legendary substance believed to transmute base metals into gold and to grant immortality. Jung understood it symbolically as the highest goal of transformation — the birth of consciousness through the union of opposites. Rather than a literal object, it represents the integration of shadow and light, conscious and unconscious, into a living awareness that generates wholeness. The “stone” is
the image of the Self, the inner center where the work of individuation takes place.
Example: In relationships, the Philosopher’s Stone can be glimpsed when partners endure their differences without collapsing into blame or fusion, allowing something new and more conscious to be born between them.
Prima Materia (alchemical term)
In Alchemy, prima materia is the “first matter” — the raw, chaotic substance from which transformation begins. It symbolizes the unconscious in its undifferentiated state: dark, shapeless, and full of hidden potential. To work with the prima materia is to engage the psychic raw material of shadow, instinct, and suffering, trusting that this base matter contains the seed of new life.
Projection
The unconscious process of attributing disowned qualities, feelings, or desires to another person. Projection allows us to encounter aspects of
ourselves in the outer world, often through relationships but also events. While it can distort our perception of others, projection also provides a pathway for recognizing and integrating shadow aspects of the self. Pro-jection is involuntary. Carl Jung says, “We don’t make projections, we meet with them.”
Puella (Latin: “maiden”)
The archetype of the eternal girl, often appearing as light, charming, and enchanting. Puella energy brings freshness, play, beauty, and spontaneity, but in its shadow may resist depth, responsibility, or confrontation with reality. Where the puer embodies eternal youth through spirit and vision, the puella carries eternal girl through allure and possibility. Integrated, she offers renewal, grace, and a vital connection to imagination, but when dominant, she risks remaining ungrounded, dependent, or childlike.
Puer (Latin: “youth”)
In Jungian psychology, the puer aeternus (“eternal youth”) is the archetype
of youthful spirit, spontaneity, and potential. It embodies creativity, playfulness, and openness to possibility — but in shadow form, it can manifest as immaturity, instability, or an inability to commit. The puer longs for freedom, often resisting the weight of limitation or responsibility.
Puer–Senex Polarity
A central archetypal tension in Jungian thought describing the interplay between the puer aeternus (eternal youth) and the senex (old man). The puer embodies youth, spontaneity, imagination, and the longing for freedom — a flight from earth or grounding — and can be non-committal. The senex represents age, order, structure, and responsibility. Together, they form a polarity of expansion and contraction, possibility and limitation, inspiration and discipline. When out of balance, the puer may resist commitment or reality, while the senex may become rigid or overly critical. Integrated, they complement one another: the puer brings vitality and openness to new horizons, while the senex grounds that energy in wisdom, endurance, and form. Several signs gravitate toward living or embodying extremes of these archetypes. See Liz Greene & Howard
Sasportas’s in-depth study in The Development of the Personality, Seminars in Psychological Astrology (1987), pp. 225-313.
Psyche
The psyche refers to the totality of the human mind — both conscious and unconscious. It includes thoughts, feelings, images, instincts, and
archetypes. For Jung, the psyche is self-regulating and moves toward wholeness, guided by the dynamic interplay among ego, shadow,
persona, and the Self.
Psychoid
A term Jung used for the deep layer of the unconscious that borders on the somatic and transpersonal. The psychoid is not fully psychic nor fully material but exists at the threshold where psyche and matter meet. Jung connected this realm with archetypes and synchronicity, suggesting it is where the collective unconscious combines with the physical world. Body/matter and psyche/spirit.
Psychopomp
From the Greek psyche (“soul”) and pompos (“guide” or “conductor”). In analytical psychology, a psychopomp is an inner guide or mediator between the conscious and unconscious realms. It appears in dreams, symbols, or synchronicities to lead the ego toward deeper self-knowledge and transformation — the soul’s guide on the journey of individuation.
Self
As the archetype of wholeness and the organizing principle of the psyche, the Self represents the totality of conscious and unconscious elements,
and transcends the ego. It often appears symbolically in dreams or myths as mandalas, wise figures, or divine images. Jung described individuation as the realization of the objective psyche. The Self is both the center and the circumference of our totality. In Aion, Researches into the Phenomenology of the Self, Jung also wrote that Christ is a symbol of the Self, expressing its
archetypal nature in religious form. (CW 9ii, par. 70)
Senex (Latin: “old man”)
The archetype of old age, authority, structure, and tradition. The senex represents wisdom, discipline, and order, but in its shadow can appear rigid, judgmental, or overly controlling. It balances the puer’s lightness with gravity, offering stability, groundedness and endurance, but can stifle vitality if it becomes too dominant. We need both puer and senex for balance, wholeness, and completion.
Shadow
The aspects of the psyche that are repressed, denied, or disowned by the conscious ego. The shadow contains qualities we judge as negative or
unacceptable, but also positive potential we have not yet accepted or integrated. Shadow material often appears in dreams, slips of the tongue, aversions, projections, and conflicts in relationships. Engaging with the shadow is central to the development of consciousness and individuation.
Soul
In Jungian psychology, the soul is not understood in the theological sense but as a mediating principle between consciousness and the unconscious. It is the inner dimension through which we experience meaning, imagination, and relationship with the Self. The soul shapes our individuality by giving form to the dialogue between ego and unconscious contents, and it often appears personified in dreams and projections as the Anima (in men) or Animus (in women).
Synchronicity
Jung’s term for meaningful coincidence — events that are not causally connected but are experienced as related in a symbolic and significant way. Synchronicity points to an underlying “acausal” order that links psyche and matter, revealing a deeper layer of meaning in life’s psychic patterns and timing.
Temenos
Greek for “enclosed sacred space.” In a trusted intimate relationship, a temenos is the protected container — inner and relational — where
unconscious material can emerge and be held safely. Boundaries, ritual, and trust create this vessel for symbol, affect, and dialogue.
Transcendent Function
Jung’s term for the psyche’s capacity to generate a “third” perspective when opposites are consciously held together. Instead of collapsing into one side or splitting in conflict, the tension itself gives rise to a new attitude, symbol, or path forward. The transcendent function often emerges through dreams, active imagination, or deep reflection. It is less about willpower than about allowing the unconscious and conscious to collaborate in
creating something new.
Example: In a relationship, one partner may crave closeness while the other needs space. Rather than one giving in or both splitting apart, holding the tension might give rise to a new form of intimacy that honors both closeness and independence — such as shared time balanced with solitude.
The Elements: Air, Earth, Fire, Water
In astrology and Alchemy, the four elements symbolize psychological functions of the ego consciousness. Air represents thought, communication, and perspective; Earth grounds us in matter, body, and practical form; Fire embodies energy, passion, and spirit; Water flows with emotion, intuition, and depth. Together they form the basic building blocks of psyche and cosmos, appearing in balance throughout the Zodiac. (See Elements for corresponding descriptions).
Typology: Thinking, Sensation, Intuition, Feeling
Jung identified four basic psychological functions of consciousness: Thinking (objective evaluation through concepts and logic), Sensation (direct perception of the physical world through the senses), Intuition (perceiving possibilities, patterns, and the unseen), and Feeling (valuing and relating through subjective meaning). Each person has a dominant function and an inferior one, yet individuation calls us to recognize all four and gradually work toward greater balance among them. (See Elements for corresponding descriptions).