REBECA EIGEN | shadowdance

- ABOUT ME -

By midlife, most of us notice certain relationship patterns repeating — the same frustrations, disappointments, or emotional dynamics showing up again and again.

You may find yourself asking: Why is this happening to me… again?

Often it’s our own Shadow (a concept introduced by Carl Jung) knocking on the door of consciousness, begging for acceptance and integration. Shadow projection is one of the primary causes of conflict in marriage, family dynamics, and friendships that end before their time.

How I Can Help

My consultations are for people who:
• have given up on relationships or feel stuck in repeating patterns
• want to become a better partner and understand their emotional triggers
• have heard the word Shadow and want to learn how to work with their own

Using your astrological birth chart and current transits (the movement of planets right now), I help you understand the energy influencing your relationships and life timing. These transits are often the catalysts for awakening and growth — the moments when we are called to become more conscious.

As a woman with five planets in Libra and the North Node in the 7th House, I have spent my life exploring the art of relationship — the dance between self and other, between love and projection, between the desire for union and the need for individuality.

Libra, being the archetype of marriage, harmony and balance, is the part of all of us that seeks to form healthy relationships with others. We all have Libra somewhere in our charts, not just those born with the Sun sign of Libra and everyone's 7th house will remarkably portray your relationships.

My Background

For over 25 years, I’ve immersed myself in analytical psychology and astrology, studying at the Carl G. Jung Education Center in Houston, Texas, under teachers such as Rev. J. Pittman McGehee, D.D.

I studied with noted Astrologers including Michael Lutin, Donna Cunningham, Glenn Perry, Ph.D., Steven Forrest and Jan Spiller for over 30 years.

What I’ve Learned

Everything I teach comes not only from years of study but from my own life experience. By observing my repeating relationship patterns — and learning to own my projections — my relationships became more authentic and balanced.

When both partners are willing to be real, vulnerable, and mutually accountable, love deepens. When we accept each other as we truly are — not as we wish the other to be — something sacred happens: projection gives way to presence, and friendship becomes the foundation for lasting love.

It takes two people committed to growth to make a relationship work in a healthy, conscious way. We cannot do it alone — for the Other is the mirror of our most unconscious self.

We are Each Others Mirror.
Meet Me Half Way.

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Words cannot begin to express what we have gained from your work and writing in such a short period of time.

— Ken Westenhaven - LaPorte, Colorado

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Shadow Work for Every Relationship

Shadow Work is not just for couples. Our Shadow influences how we relate to everyone — friends, lovers, children, siblings, parents, co-workers, and even neighbors. Every relationship in your life can improve when you begin to recognize and take responsibility for your own projections.

I wholeheartedly dedicate myself to sharing this work with others. My Workbook is a workshop in itself — designed to be done alone or with a significant other.

Owning your Shadow is not easy. As the late Jungian analyst Robert A. Johnson, author of Owning Your Own Shadow, wrote, it is a life’s work requiring tremendous courage and self-honesty. To engage in this process, we must subject the ego to honest self-reflection as the Universe continuously provides us with an abundant supply of repeating patterns to awaken us. The effort — and sometimes the pain — is profoundly worthwhile.

When you begin to understand Jung’s insights and learn to own your Shadow, the experiences that once puzzled or hurt you begin to make sense. You consciously accept your humanity — and that of others. In that loving acceptance, transformation becomes possible. Like Beauty embracing the Beast, we learn what it truly means to love.

With sincere love and the hope that you experience ever more authentic sharing and caring in all your relationships.

With warm regards,