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Understand why your relationship patterns repeat — and how to change them.

If you feel stuck, confused, obsessed, or at a crossroads in love, there is a pattern behind it. I help you identify what is operating beneath the surface so you can move forward with clarity.

How I Work

I combine Jungian Shadow Work and 7th-House Astrology to reveal the unconscious dynamics shaping your intimate life. In close partnerships, we become fascinated, obsessed, irritated, or wounded — and yet the same themes repeat across different people. Attraction, conflict, longing, repetition — none of it is random. Carl Jung observed that what we do not recognize within ourselves we meet as fate. In love, this becomes painfully clear.

 

We fall in love with a quality we believe belongs to the other. In time, we react intensely to something we are certain is “their issue.”  The 7th House in your birth chart symbolically describes the kinds of people you are drawn to and the psychological qualities you unconsciously seek through them. The planet Venus describes how you love, what you value, and what you long to experience in connection. Together, they form a map of your relational patterns — both conscious and unconscious.

 

When these patterns remain unseen, love can feel fated. Compulsive. Confusing. Magnetic. Painful. Exhilarating. Repetitive. When they become conscious, something shifts.

In our work together we:
• Examine your 7th House and Venus
• Identify projection patterns
• Clarify unconscious dynamics
• Translate insight into practical next steps
This is structured psychological work grounded in your specific Astrology — not guesswork.

You begin to recognize projection in real time. You see where you are reacting from old material rather than present reality.
You understand why a certain type of person feels irresistible — or intolerable. You stop trying to fix the “Other” and begin integrating what you had placed outside yourself. This is shadow work.
 

My work is structured in three areas: Individual and Couples Consultations, a Six-Week Online Webinar, and ongoing Shadow Work Coaching. Click below to explore each offering and discover what may be right for you — individually or with a partner.

 

To schedule an appointment call 281-799-2900.

For over 30 years, I have integrated Jungian psychology with astrology as a symbolic map of the psyche — helping individuals and couples move from unconscious repetition to conscious choice.

Sessions are available via Zoom worldwide and in person in Houston, Texas. If you are ready to understand the pattern rather than relive it, begin here.

New to Jungian or astrological language? For a dictionary of terms used throughout this site, click here.

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Who is this for?

Individuals trying to understand a specific relationship
• Couples stuck in repetitive conflict
• People experiencing intense attraction or obsession
• Those at a relational crossroads
• Anyone tired of repeating the same dynamic

Self-knowledge ends repetition.

     “The psychological rule says that when an inner situation is not made conscious, it happens outside as fate. That is to say, when the individual remains undivided and does not become conscious of his inner opposite, the world must perforce act out the conflict and be torn into opposing halves.”
                
— CARL G. JUNG

CW Vol. 9ii: AION: The
Phenomenology of the Self,
par 126

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We don’t really fall in love with strangers — we fall in love with our own hidden selves reflected back
through another.


 

My latest book, When the Other Is You, Love Beyond Projection is the Alchemy of Relationship in the Age of Aquarius is about moving beyond projection into conscious love. At first, partners seem larger than life, carrying our light or shadow. But the real journey begins when we reclaim what we projected and step into becoming BEST FRIENDS as the deepest form of love.
   Beyond the fantasy lies the Gold — a journey of two souls, free to be themselves, and free to grow together.

 

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WHEN THE OTHER IS YOU

will show you how to do your 7th House (marriage, partners) energies ( planets = archetypes) and your Venus aspects TOGETHER!” — Re

                                             

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“I can’t tell you in words how you have helped me understand the me I am becoming. You are a true guide for a journey that most don’t even realize they are on and they are otherwise missing all the “sights.” You show the way.”
                                                                                                                                         —  Jeff Riley, Houston, Texas

“Thank you for introducing me to shadow work several years ago. I don’t know where I would be right now if it were not for meeting you during that crazy time in my life.”

                                                                                                                                         — Michelle Rothrock, Bossier City, LA

“Working with Rebeca has been so insightful. She has a loving and non-judgmental way of shining a light on your shadows that bring instant enlightenment and healing. I have found her insights especially uplifting in my personal relationships and consult with her a few times a year to stay on track with my planetary transits.” 
                                                                                                                                         —Amy Durham, Clovis, California




 
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