October 22, 2019

Filling the conscious mind with ideal conceptions is a characteristic feature of Western theosophy, but not the confrontation with the shadow and the world of darkness. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious....

July 30, 2019

Many of us marry when we are in a state of romantic euphoria. This surge of energy we feel around a particular person is that an unknown aspect of ourselves has been projected onto them. This is what generates the remarkable “spark” that gets ignited. The intensity and...

May 23, 2019

What is the difference between projection and transference? 
Projection and transference are the same phenomena which is seeing in others outside of ourselves our own unconscious contents. We transfer or project whatever we disown, deny or repress — only this is occurr...

October 1, 2018

This post is about the phenomena of falling in love versus the psychological awareness of projection.

August 27, 2018

As hard as it is to see it, everything in a relationship, the beginning, the middle and the end are about US. They were a mirror for us — whatever we didn't like was a part of us we need to either develop or we are doing it behind our own back and don't know it. We nee...

March 11, 2017

What if everyone you get "deeply involved" with has a message for you? Do you kill the messenger if you don't like what he or she represents?
 

The unconscious in all of us has its own agenda — it wants to be known. Sometimes we will say to ourselves, “What does he see...

February 16, 2017

Our relationships are probably the best training grounds for wholeness that we can encounter. It is hard to see yourself in a vacuum all by yourself. We all need a partner to see ourselves, and life certainly obliges us all along the way if we are willing to see that t...

January 18, 2016

This past weekend I was giving a free lecture on my book, The Shadow Dance & Astrological 7th House Workbook at Spirit Quest Center in Spring, TX and a very interesting dialogue took place with one of the participants. In the discussion, she realized a lot of the quali...

January 18, 2016

ALL of my astrological clients come to me with relationship issues and what they are going through is so specific to their chart. Without disclosing personal identification I am going to start describing some of these issues as they may be helpful to others who read my...

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